My favorite quote applies dramatically to YOUR success in martial arts -- this was written by WN MURRAY The Scottish Himalayan Expedition in 1951:
Until one is committed there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back,
always ineffectiveness.
Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation) there is one elemental truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans:
That the moment one definitely commits oneself,
then providence
moves too.
All sorts of things occur to help one that would never have occurred.
A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man would have dreamt would have come his way.
I have learned a deep respect for one of Goethe's couplets:
"Whatever you can do, or dream you can. . . begin it.
Boldness has genius, power and magic in it"
The first step to getting your Black Belt is to make a definite decision - a definite commitment that you will be a Black Belt some day. Until you make a definite commitment there will be no possibility or potential to receive your Black Belt.
And, prior to making the decision to train to your Black Belt I'd like you to consider another of my favorite quotes by Zig Ziglar:
"What we get by achieving our goals is not nearly
as important as what we become."
What wisdom!
The journey to your Black Belt will guarantee great personal growth and development. How powerful! It is a concept all martial artists must take to heart in their pursuit of MASTERY. This pursuit screams for excellence.
At Stephen Oliver's Mile High Karate, we are continually striving for excellence.not to rest on any temporary laurels or to become complacent with any short term successes. We meet with our Instructors every week-5-6 hours weekly of mental and physical training specifically designed to provide our instructors more and more understanding and methods for motivating and inspiring our students and the parents of our younger students, while adding to their considerable physical prowess.
We live by the principle that a good instructor is one who can motivate a student to be as good as the student believes he or she can be. We believe, however, that a great instructor is one who can inspire a student to be as good as the instructor believes the student can be. In this endeavor, we are constantly seeking the matched commitment of the parents and significant others, who themselves may have to overcome certain obstacles to help their children and partners reach those goals they have set as a family.
This is where LEADERSHIP training is so important. A potential leader becomes a real leader through mentoring. Our instructors guide our future leaders through all the steps to become a leader-from the basics of developing physical competence to overcoming the fear of getting up in front of others to instruct them to dissecting and analyzing students' weaknesses, followed by the methods of motivating and inspiring the many different kinds of people one is likely to encounter-in class and in life!
We are a Black Belt School. Being a Black Belt School means we are committed to Black Belt Excellence for our students. In the martial arts, as in every endeavor, excellence at its highest levels is also known as Mastery.
Mastery, by definition, means gaining consummate skill and knowledge in a subject. It is a step above expert, yet paradoxically, it is a goal that no one can ever reach-the title of true master , meaning everything is mastered is truthfully not achievable; but the pursuit of this elusive mastery is the core of what we hope to instill in our students.
So while we talk a lot about the Black Belt Goal as a tangible, attainable representation of what we call Mastery, it is truly just one of the key building blocks of the program. In fact, our martial arts educational program exceeds the acquisition of this dark colored belt we are all so proud of. The goal we seek to instill is, in fact, the never ending quest for mastery. CAN I - (Constant and Never Ending Improvement).
Contemplate what Oprah Winfrey has said about Goals. Oprah says,
"If you want to accomplish the goals of your life,
you have to begin with the Spirit."
The spirit . That is the live voice inside each of us that guides us, that gives us strength and courage to make the right decisions and to do the right things-the compass.
The compass that each of us will use throughout our journey in this new Millennium. The compass that all of our parents want their children to have, the compass for right or wrong, for courage and grace and confidence and humility, knowing they will be pulled in so many different directions by so many different forces.
Our Black Belts in Training truly have an exciting, challenging adventure ahead of them in this New Millennium. They need to be equipped with courage and stamina and fortitude and honor to face the pressures sure to confront them just in the next decade, not to mention the greater pressures that will accrue to a whole new technologically overpowered generation in the years that follow.
In the midst of more information in a world of potentially decreasing truth, everyone will need courage and awareness. To develop those necessary attributes, our Goals as individuals and as Instructors and Instructors in Training are an important central part of the recipe.
Tony Robbins explains that Goals are a "means to an end, not the ultimate purpose of our lives." He says, "Goals are simply a tool to concentrate our focus and move us in a direction. The only reason we really pursue goals is to cause ourselves to expand and grow. Achieving goals by themselves will never make us happy in the long term; it's who you become, as you overcome the obstacles necessary to achieve your goals, that can give you the deepest and most long-lasting sense of fulfillment." Once again, it's who you become!
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